Date questions
First meeting — what do you talk about?
Ordered from easy to a little deeper.
Tap the button and we will pick one question for today.
Three ways to make it easy
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Prepare just three or four questions — the conversation will carry the rest.
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Ask one follow-up after each answer. "What did you like about it?" keeps things going.
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Share about yourself in turn. Questions alone turn a date into an interview.
Hello · breaking the ice
The first five minutes. Start with what is easy to answer.
How was the trip over here today?
Do you come to this area often? Any favourite spots?
Do you pick from a menu quickly, or take your time?
What song have you been playing the most lately?
What is one small thing that has made you happy recently?
Work · everyday life
How someone spends their days says more than their job title.
What is the most interesting part of your work these days?
What do you usually do after work?
Are you a morning person or a night owl?
Could you share one moment at work you were proud of?
Do you have a favourite day of the week?
Interests · weekends
Shared interests make the next plan easy.
If you suddenly had a whole free day, what would you do?
Is there a hobby or interest you are really into lately?
Seen any good films or series recently?
Do you prefer time on your own or time with people?
What kind of exercise do you enjoy?
Travel · food
Great for long stories — and for a place to go together next time.
Of the places you have been, where would you go back to?
When you travel, do you plan everything or go with the flow?
If you could only pick one favourite food, what would it be?
Is there a restaurant you have been wanting to try?
Is there anything you don’t eat or don’t like?
A little deeper — from the second date
Once you are comfortable, questions that help you know the person.
What matters most to you these days?
How would your friends describe you?
What do you do when you are feeling down?
Do you like to keep in touch often, or now and then?
Where would you like to be in five years?
Is there something you would love to do with someone you care about?
Questions to save for later
Not bad questions — just too early for a first meeting.
Salary or wealth
your manager has already checked their work documents.
Past relationships
they easily sound like comparisons.
Asking straight away about marriage timing or children
let it come up naturally later.
Comments on looks or body
even compliments need care.
Debates on religion or politics
set them aside while getting to know each other.
Talking while looking at your phone
today, focus on the person in front of you.
Would you rather — couple edition
If you could only pick one? Choose together, one by one. Whether you agree or not, the conversation starts.
Try pointing at the same time — it’s more fun
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